Ladies, here’s how to make your boyfriend drool over you.
Do you have a boyfriend you adore, but he can’t seem to do the things you enjoy?
You’ve asked, hinted, and even begged, but he’s simply not listening. Here’s a theory that may work:
The Black Cat’s Girlfriend
The “Black Cat Girlfriend” notion, popularized on TikTok, defines a partner that is independent and distant.
She does not chase; instead, she allows him to pursue her. This girlfriend, like a normal black cat, is independent, mysterious, and content alone, which keeps him captivated.
According to the belief, women should behave like black cats, while males should act like golden retrievers, or loyal pursuers.
If you want your guy to do things you like, you might have to be the “black cat” and let him be the “golden retriever.”
Black cat-golden retriever couples frequently prosper because they demonstrate the concept of opposites attract.
How to get your boyfriend to do anything for you in a relationship
This is based on the Theory of Complementarity, which proposes that one person’s characteristics can enhance or complement those of another.
- Avoid fighting or nagging.
This can be difficult, but persistent nagging only drives your boyfriend further away. If he behaves in ways you dislike, tell him once.
If he doesn’t listen, avoid circumstances where he’s likely to repeat his activities. Set your boundaries.
- Be independent.
Don’t act as if you need him, and he will begin to need you more.
Instead of pestering him to spend time with you, take vacations with your girlfriends, go on solo dates, and live your own life. When he sees you having fun without him, he may feel excluded and want to join.
- Do not share every secret.
The phrase “familiarity breeds contempt” holds some validity. While sharing is great, retaining some mystery keeps things interesting.
Don’t share everything about yourself; let your boyfriend wonder a little about who you are, and when he asks, don’t tell him everything.
- Love yourself.
If you desire flowers, buy some for yourself. If you enjoy fragrant candles, pamper yourself. Show him how well you treat yourself, and he will learn to follow your example.
If, after a while, he still shows little desire in treating you well while having the resources, he may not be the right person for you.
These are only a few characteristics of the black cat method. If a man genuinely loves you, he will seek you. However, if you appear desperate and needy, you risk driving him away.
